After a while you learn the subtle difference ..

After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul.
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning and company doesn't mean security.
And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises.
And you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes ahead, with the grace of an adult, not the grief of a child.
And you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for ...plans, and futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight. .

After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much.
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to leave you flowers.

And you learn that you really can endure;
You really are strong, you really do have worth.
And you learn, and you learn
With every goodbye you learn. shared by Lhynn

 

 

When something speaks to your heart, honor it,

Through the words we speak, the thoughts we think and the actions we take, each and every one of us influences and makes an impact on our world. What we choose to do is just as important as what we choose NOT to do. When something speaks to your heart, honor it, take responsibility and pursue it, believe your actions do make a difference and follow through. When we don't speak up for what we believe is right we deny ourselves the opportunity to make the world a more positive place, as we enable a certain thought, habit, or action to continue its course unchallenged. We all have a unique and precious gift to offer the world.. do not deny yourself or others the privilege. Each and every one of us comes into this world for a specific reason, we may have something to learn, to complete. We are not here accidentally, there is a direct and specific meaning behind our existence. Celebrate your uniqueness, work on identifying your purpose and do your best to fulfill it.

Those of us who refuse to risk and grow get swallowed up by life....

Two seeds lay side by side in the fertile soil.

The first seed said, "I want to grow! I want to send my roots deep into the soil beneath me, and thrust my sprouts through the earth's crust above me ... I want to unfurl my tender buds like banners to announce the arrival of spring ... I want to feel the warmth of the sun on my face and the blessing of the morning dew on my petals!"

And so she grew...
The second seed said, "I am afraid. If I send my roots into the ground below, I don't know what I will encounter in the dark. If I push my way through the hard soil above me I may damage my delicate sprouts ... what if I let my buds open and a snail tries to eat them? And if I were to open my blossoms, a small child may pull me from the ground. No, it is much better for me to wait until it is safe."

And so she waited...
A yard hen scratching around in the early spring ground for food found the waiting seed and promptly ate it.
 

Moral of the Story ... Those of us who refuse to risk and grow get swallowed up by life....

-Patty Hansen -

 

 

You must watch out how you Portray Yourself... BE REAL.

I am sure that this has happened to many of us in the world in terms of finding out someone’s true colours and who a person really is. I am sure you have met so many people who don’t end up to be the same person in the end. It is a sad thing to have to experience. When you go through life with these certain issues, trust and having faith in people slowly diminishes into the air. People need to be honest from the beginning of any friendship of relationship a person starts from the beginning. The truth always comes out no matter how hard we try and hide it from people. People at first get fooled by being colour blinded and in the beginning, people do anything to get their foot into the door of a new friendship, relationship, a job placement or whatever the case maybe, but then after a while the person starts changing into someone who a person or people once thought was incredible and great to be with is now someone who is the total opposite. I am sure a lot of us go through that in life and a lot and I cannot even count how many times I myself have been in that situation.

People need to realize that the world does not revolve around one person, it revolves around everyone and the world is for everyone. Not one person. I feel like as the days go by and years go by more and more of peoples true colours are coming out more often and people need to realize that their actions, words and the approach to things have a big effect on the other person or people. You cannot always think about yourself and be selfish and be a fake person to get what you want. It is not cool to be dishonest and lie to people. Now in job placements it is extra hard to get in and review resumes because people choose to lie, and lie in interviews and everything else to just get their foot in the door and then screw up in the workplace or do something terrible to other people working. Its not a great trait to develop. If your serious about working and if you are willing to give it your all, be honest about it and don’t fool the company you work for. That is where someones true colours come out again.

Honesty is the best policy in anything. Without being honest, forward and a straight shooter, you can lose a lot of friends, you can lose out in relationships, and lose out on great jobs you can get. Think about it. Be clear in your colours, come clean about yourself in the beginning, so that people who are colour blind emotionally and mentally can see the real colours from the start. Think long and hard before you talk and before you act. There are people who can take water out of a rock and there are people who are such great judge of characters. You must watch out on how you portray yourself and how you represent yourself. Good Luck and be REAL.

 

 

 

 

 

Spend time with people who love you

Spend time with people who love you and make you feel good about yourself– quality relationships make life worth living.

Anytime you feel that the weight of your burden is hard to bear, talk to a friend or someone with a sympathetic ear – even if they cannot do anything to help you out, just the fact that you have someone on your side is uplifting enough.

And finally, look around you before you start to feel sorry for yourself – there are people in situations that are a hundred times worse than yours, yet they manage to get through each day.

Self-Acceptance: Be good exactly as you are, right now, at this very moment. You actually ARE good as you are, so start being good with yourself. You can always be more of what's good about you, of course, and you can be less of what's not best about you. But you don't need to improve or to be improved. So make adjustments to yourself, not improvements. You don't have to lose or gain weight to be ... good. You don't need to change your hair, or look younger or be older to be good. You don't to have a better job, be more educated, have a bigger salary or higher title to be good. You don't need a better image to be good. Simply shape up your self-image, and always accept yourself as good, just as you are.

 

By refusing to forgive we are just prolonging our own pain.

By refusing to forgive we are just prolonging our own pain. Forgiveness does not mean excusing or condoning evil behaviour or allowing it to continue. If we are the victim of ongoing hurt, we need to take effective steps to create the necessary boundaries so that those people cannot continue to hurt us. At the same time we can work on forgiveness, which means not to allow our hearts to continuously be filled with hatred. Getting rid of hatred is liberating and allows us to move on. For us to achieve personal peace and freedom, we must learn to forgive, freeing our self of anger, judgements, grievances and bitterness - all of which interfere with our present moment joy and inner peace.

Just a THOUGHT!....

I don't understand how some people can just go from having a relationship so fast . I don't understand how someone can drop their feelings just like that, how they can be dating someone one day and then two days later be going after someone else. I don't understand it. It takes me a very long time to get over a guy and fall for another one. So, i guess, this is just something I can't understand. How feelings can be so fragile, how commitment can be so meaningless that there's really nothing invested. How, if someone wanted to just pack everything and head off somewhere else, to someone else, they could because everything they "had" was completely meaningless. How am I supposed to believe those feelings were real? How can someone try to tell me that it's the same as what I've felt, things that have taken me months to get over?

So many times .. just maybe I am too scared to trust someone so easily , and by doing so until now I am Alone without no one to share my honest heart .. Am I really too picky , too careful to get hurt... or just tired dealing with someone who don't appreciate one true heart. I know there is still 'someone' out-there who share the same ideas like mine.. I just have to be Patient some more.

.. Just sharing my THOUGHT!~ shared by Lhynn~

 

 

Being disappointed is part of life and relationships.

Being disappointed is part of life and relationships. It is a very tough feeling to experience and the quicker we are able to accept and process it the sooner we'll be able to move on. By creating expectations, we risk being disappointed when things don't go exactly the way we had planned or dreamed. This may awaken feelings of anger towards ourselves, others, or God - for allowing this to happen - to frustration and even depression. Disappointment can also be seen as a gift, don't fear it, since it brings us to the reality of what is, not what could have or should have been. Allow yourself to feel your disappointment, the situation which created it, what you were expecting and what actually occurred. By looking at similar past situations and how we moved through them,
we will realize that in most cases the final outcome was more beneficial in the long run than the original plan. Disappointment can also teach us the powerful lesson,
that although things don't always turn out the way we expect, through acceptance of what is, we can find the will to pick up the pieces and continue on our journey strengthened by the wisdom acquired.

LOVE SPEAKS SILENTLY.

You and I are in a relationship,..( A MUST READ!... )

 You and I are in a relationship,which I value and want to keep. Yet each of us is a separate person with unique needs and the right to meet those needs.

When you are having problems meeting your needs I will listen with genuine acceptance so as to facilitate your finding your own solutions instead of depending on mine. I also will respect your right to choose your own beliefs and develop your own values, different though they may be from mine.

However, when your behavior i...nterferes with what I must do to get my own needs met, I will tell you openly and honestly how your behavior affects me, trusting that you respect my needs and feelings enough to try to change the behavior that is unacceptable to me. Also, whenever some behavior of mine is unacceptable to you, I hope you will tell me openly and honestly so I can change my behavior.

At those times when one of us cannot change to meet the other's needs, let us acknowledge that we have a conflict and commit ourselves to resolve each such conflict without either of us resorting to the use of power to win at the expense of the other's losing. I respect your needs, but I also must respect my own. So let us always strive to search for a solution that will be acceptable to both of us. Your needs will be met, and so will mine - neither will lose, both will win.

In this way, you can continue to develop as a person through satisfying your needs, and so can I. Thus, ours can be a healthy relationship in which both of us can strive to become what we are capable of being. And we can continue to relate to each other with mutual respect, love and peace.
Dr. Thomas Gordon

 

 

 

ATTITUDE Changes Everything!

The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home. The remarkable... thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our attitudes.

 (Charles R. Swindoll )

Attitude Changes Everything!

 

Your thoughts, feelings and actions influence the outcome of your day. For example if you wake up feeling miserable, angry and depressed, chances are - you will have a negative, unsuccessful day. However, if you wake up with a smile, carrying only lessons from yesterday and embracing the days full potential - you will have a positive, successful day.

Like this status, if you are prepared to wake up with a HUGE smile and make this day/week or this year Awesome!

 

You and you alone are responsible for your happiness.

You and you alone are responsible for your happiness.
Nothing external to you – not money, not society, not your home, job or car – can dictate how you feel. How unhappy or happy you feel in light of all of these things is a choice. You call the shots.

Your life, your rules.
So choose to be HAPPY.
Choose happiness for your health.
Choose happiness for your relationships.
Choose happiness for the success of the world you live in. But most importantly of all, choose happiness for the simple fact that this is YOUR LIFE.
As you go about your day, commit to using the following affirmation: “I am in charge of how I feel and today, I choose HAPPINESS.”

Share this post with your friends and loved ones as a reminder that happiness is possible for them.
Ask yourself – what do I choose for myself? Regardless of what you may have chosen in the past, LIKE this post if you plan to choose happiness TODAY.

 

I don't know what I want to do with my life. I just know I want to do it.

I don't know what I want to do with my life.
 I just know I want to do it. I want to see my world. I want to meet every single person breathing on this earth. I want to give everyone a hug or a handshake, and I want to make someone's life a little easier. I want to be different than the people I know because that's what makes us beautiful. I want to be absolutely ridiculous before I die. I don't want regrets. I want to stand for something. ~ shared by Lhynn ~

Saint-Jean-Sur-Richelieu Balloon Festival - 2013

 

When you want an answer to a question, direct that question to within You.

When you want an answer to a question, direct that question to within You. Believe and know that the moment you ask, you are being answered. You don't know HOW the answer will come, but you will recieve it, and the answer you receive will be the perfect answer for You, because you attracted it from within You. If there was a particular house you wanted, or a particular relationship or job you wanted, and you didn't get it, the Universe is telling you that it was not good enough and did not match your dream. It is also telling you that it has something BETTER and more worthy of you. Something better is coming ... you're allowed to be excited!
 

The Universe is completely and utterly in love with you. No matter how many mistakes you make, no matter where you are in your life, no matter what you think of you, the Universe loves you for all eternity. 

— Neal Kapoor —

 

 

There are times when I wonder what life would have been ...

There are times when I wonder what life would have been like if I would have followed what I perceive "life's order" to be. After a few moments,

I catch myself and realize that "order" has no guarantees. Life just is. Not right or wrong..., not out of order, not too late. Our journey is a creative process that builds upon itself. There is no reason to second guess a moment or one event.

We need to keep our hearts centered and our minds present as we move forward. The celebration lies in Now  ~♥~  Lhynn  ~♥~

 

You are now at a crossroads.

You are now at a crossroads. Your journey brought you here, this is your opportunity to make the most important decision you will ever make. Forget your past. Who are you now? Who have you decided you really are now? Don't think about who you have been. Who are you now? Who have you decided to become? Make this decision consciously. Make it carefully. Make it powerfully. LIVE!!!

Your journey brought you here... LIVE!!

What lies behind us ...

What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us
– Ralph Waldo Emerson -

Ever have the feeling that if you could just get away...you could find those answers that lie within us? That pull of the open road away from past, not quite to the future, but only in the now... Problems in the rearview... if only for a time...Letting ourselves remember what it is that we have within? Getting that break from reality?  Sigh.!... someday that road is so appealing.

Often people attempt to live their lives backwards;

Often people attempt to live their lives backwards; they try to have more things, or more money, in order to do more of what they want, so they will be happier. The way it actually works is the reverse. You must first be who you really are, then do what you need to do, in order to have what you want and you need to make sure your priorities are in line with what you want out of life.

Slow down and Enjoy LIFE...

In the end what our lives will come down to the choices that we made.

There have been too many instances in which people with so much greatness inside of them, so much goodness, peace, and love, just end up leaving the Earth without really leaving a smudge of a legacy. Though a life's worth surely isn't based... off of the legend that any particular person was able to make, when you believe in yourself, and when you believe in the dreams inside of your heart, you act upon it. From these actions, if a person is dedicated enough to their dream, and to their craft, the legacy that they will write will ultimately write itself.

In the end what our lives will come down to the choices that we made. When there is a voice inside that tells you that you could never do something, there should be enough of a dream and a self-confidence inside of you that tells you that you can do anything!

BE PATIENT...

Instead of living your life waiting for things to be the way that you want them to, and being frustrated because you don't have everything that you desire, be happy that you have enough right now to make things better for the future. Handle life with a confident demeanor, an attitude that will help you to convince yourself if you continue to think positively, then positive things will happen.

Your thoughts, your words are reflections of who you truly are

Your thoughts, your words are reflections of who you truly are and who you could become. Be careful what you think of and of what you speak of for these can manifest in your life. So why not throw away all those negativity and just remain open to positivity.
~ shared by Lhynn ~

Feeling lost? Let down? Falling apart?

Feeling lost? Let down? Falling apart?

If so, then know that you are not alone. We all experience our fair share of hardships from time to time – life is a journey, and none of us are immune to the many bumps and cracks that appear along the way.

No matter how strong you may know you are – because let’s face it, you ARE strong – there will be those moments when sometimes, something’s got to give...

Health problems, heartbreak, disappointment, impossible situations…if you’re unable to see a way out, know this:

 

 

No one can make us feel inferior without our consent.

No one can make us feel inferior without our consent. We’re always teaching people how we want to be treated. If you don’t like the way someone is treating you, don’t blame them change how you treat yourself. If we put ourselves down and make self-deprecating comments, it tells people we don’t value ourselves and it tells them it is OK for them to do the same. If we put everyone else first and don’t take care of ourselves, the people in our lives will demand more and more because we have taught them we have no boundaries and can’t say no. We have a choice. If we give our power away by allowing others to control our behavior, make choices for us or treat us less than we deserve, we are giving away our power. If we live our lives as victims in un-forgiveness we teach others that we are powerless and they can feel free to victimize us. If we choose to stand in our power and make conscious choices to live life on our terms, to be in control and to not tolerate being controlled, that is what they will learn.

 

When we are willing to not only envision our dreams, but also are willing to go after our dreams,

When we are willing to not only envision our dreams, but also are willing to go after our dreams, we will soon realize that the pursuit of these dreams will help to build us as well.

This is why we should make sure to enjoy each step of ...the way on the journey to our dreams, because in a sense, everything that we do on the way to reaching our goal will be what we remember most about reaching them.

Take each step of your journey as it comes and don't forget to delight in the fact that you are able to take these steps. Sometimes things will get hard, and sometimes you will face roadblocks. It is these roadblocks and challenges you face on the way to your dreams that will not only strengthen your resolve and problem solving skills, but it is with these challenges that you learn more and more about yourself along the way.

 

I've learned that no matter what happens... ( Maya Angelou )

“I've learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow. I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights. I've learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you'll miss them when they're gone from your life. I've learned that making a "living" is not the same thing as making a "life." I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance. I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw something back. I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision. I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one. I've learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back. I've learned that I still have a lot to learn. I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

 ~ Maya Angelou ~

The beautiful thing about memories is that they are yours;

The beautiful thing about memories is that they are yours; whether they are good, bad, or indifferent. They belong to you, and no matter where life takes you, your memories tie you to where you've been, and to where you are now.

GUILT.

I choose not to feel guilty for any bad choices or decisions made in the past. I choose to see myself though eyes of compassion and forgiveness. I give myself permission to forgive myself. How liberating is that!! Why? you may ask. First, I don't see how dwelling on negative feelings can heal or teach me anything. Second, looking back at my life and assessing some of the situations..., I can honestly say I did the best I could with what I had under the circumstances. Third, I have chosen to accept all aspects of myself, my strengths as well as my weaknesses, and forgiving myself for past choices is the first step in healing and living a life free of regrets and resentments. I deserve happiness, harmony, and peace and these cannot be achieved by carrying around an overabundance of negativity shaped as GUILT.

Dear Past ... Thank you for All the Lessons.

have Faith it WILL and BELIEVE

When it comes to making a major decision(s) in my life, I have found that change can be hard for me. But over time, I have become less afraid and actually wonder instead,. maybe this was the way I was supposed to go. How do I know when opportunity is going to be knocking if I'm always resisting...
And Finally .. That's what I did two years ago when I left my full-time job and work for myself. It was scary at first .. money wise I earn  less but I am willing to work hard , I never give up in achieving my goals  &much perseverance I did It! ... It was the BEST decisions I made so far. I am much happier and living a stress free Life.  
I can do things without asking anyone for permission to  do things I love to do at any given time. I learned to surrender and have Faith it WILL and  I BELIEVE .. that it will really  work out for the best. Anything and Everything is Possible!!
Maybe by sharing part of my story I can motivate someone who is struggling with any decisions they are making right at this moment.
~ shared by Lhynn ~

There' something a quote does that nothing and no one else can ever do;

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There' something a quote does that nothing and no one else can ever do; it can become a part of you, you may never meet, or even know who wrote your life down in their own words, but that person is your companion. Quotes help you get over pain, feel loved, make you smile or even laugh, on those tough days and to think you started thinking no one knew what you were going through. 
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Be free to write your own Story.

Just because a few negative things have happened to you,..

Just because a few negative things have happened to you, doesn’t mean you’re having a bad day. It means you have the opportunity to make a meaningful positive difference in the direction of the day. Be a momentum changer. Although the day may have started out in an unfortunate direction, that can end right now with you. Any negative pattern you experience can only continue if you let it. Don’t let it. Stop the negative pattern, change the momentum and transform the whole day by choosing positive action. You have the power to be a momentum changer, so use that power to the benefit of yourself and all those around you.
— Ralph Marston —

This Is YOUR LIFE...

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No matter what anyone has told you, what anyone has done to you, or what you "think you deserve"...the truth of the matter is, NOBODY and NOTHING defines who you are and your value! YOU ARE WORTHY simply because you are a child of this universe! Remember that every single person is on their own journey... and what they might've done to you is something that they've had to figure out on their journey.

We are all in this together trying to figure out this thing we call life, and the best way to live it, is with Forgiveness, Love and an Insatiable appetite for Learning, Growing and having FUN!!! Let go of anything, any thought or any person that keeps you from Being and Living the truth of Who You Really Are! It's time to stop standing on the sidelines of your Life and Begin to LIVE the Magnificent that is YOUR LIFE! ~•●♥ƸӜƷ❉•.¸¸.❉•♥•❉ Lhynn ❉•♥•❉•.¸¸.❉ƸӜƷ♥●•~

 

LOVE IS NOT FREE ... ♥

Love is not free, the price is your heart...Truth is I still care and always will. I'm not the type of woman to let people walk out of my life and pretend they don't matter anymore. I may not like the person anymore or talk to him or her but, I still care. I'm not always going to think back to my life and say I wondered what happened to so and so.. I hope they're alright. I will actually mean it. That is the type of woman I am. I forgive, I live and let live but once you're in my heart, your there forever ~ shared by Lhynn ~

 

 

" DEAR ME "

I Love writing / scribbling stuff most Specially when I am in my thinking mode . Sometimes I can't even read what I wrote . It sounds funny , but it's true . It inspires me to write myself a letter...and write some other people letters that I'm never going to send them. I have a thing or two to say to some people. I don't really even want or need them to read the letters.

 

Dear Me,

I wish you would have more faith in yourself. Look how far you've come! You have overcome some major obstacles, ones people would understand if you fell apart, yet you stood with tears in your eyes tall and strong.

I wish you

could see how beautiful you are. Beauty isn't just physical! shallow people see only the physical, but people who see beyond the few extra pounds you carry or the cuts on your arms are special people. Just because you don't look like a super model doesn't mean your curves aren't beautiful!

I wish you could stand up for yourself. Letting others use you won't make them accept you. If they don't accept you without using you it won't change no matter what you do, so save your heart and learn to say "NO" please!

 

There is no such thing as loving too much. Don't let anyone ever tell you there is.  Keep loving with your whole heart. And love yourself with your whole heart too. forgive yourself. You forgive everyone but yourself. The highest form of love is forgiveness. So, please, forgive yourself.

 

Lastly , No matter what your day brings please KEEP ON SMILING!

Love,
Me

                      

 

It is our mind that creates the kind of life we live.

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It is our mind that creates the kind of life we live. If we think positively we will transform our life accordingly. Everything starts from within, from the most simple action to the greatest achievement. We cannot always have control over our external circumstances, but we can control our inner world of thoughts, where everything starts. We can't always control our outer universe, but we can, with some effort, control our inner universe.✿•.¸¸.❀•*´¯`*•✿• shared Lhynn •✿•.¸¸•❀•*´¯`*•✿•

"Unbroken"

"Unbroken"
I bend but I do not break.
I crack but I am not in pieces.
I may be bruised but I am not damaged.
I am shaken but I am not shattered.
I can be wounded but I cannot be destroyed.
I may cry tears but tears will not dissolve me.
I can stumble but I will rise.
I may sit down in acceptance but I will stand up in action....

I can be hurt but I will heal.
I may be very discouraged but I will become very determined.
I am not broken.
I’ve been bent, but life has bent me.
I am bending, but I am choosing to bend. As I am bending, I am strengthening and mending.
I am still alive and standing.
Death is final, but life is everything that has bent me but does not break me.
I am Unbroken.

 

Regardless of whatever you are going through,

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 Regardless of whatever you are going through,
have faith; make hope your sanctuary.
Nothing will last forever and at the end,
whatever happens to us is nothing but small stuff. What we are experiencing is part of what we need to live in order to be greater. There is no other way to grow or learn but by experiencing.

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Remember...

"It's not what happens to you,but how you react to it that matters." ~Epictetus ~

 

 

All the Answers are Within Yourself...

If you are at a point in your life where you are not sure what you need to do, which path to take, or whether you are doing the right thing. That's probably because your soul is wanting you to delve deep within yourself and find what you truly want from your life. Your soul is trying to guide you towards your life's path. Please take a moment to think what you really want to do that you haven't done so far, and what would make you happy. That's probably the answer to your confusion. All your answers are within yourself... ~ shared by Lhynn ~

May you find enough inner strength to determine your own worth

May you find enough inner strength to determine your own worth by yourself, and not depend on another's judgment of your accomplishments. There is meaning in everything. Everything you do matters in some way or another. Time is our worst enemy because it is the one thing we cannot control. The only thing about time you can control is how you spend it. If we fill our lives with regrets of yesterday and the concerns for tomorrow, we will miss out on the wonders that the present has to offer! All things happen for a reason but time will tie together all that's meant to be...Smile, say a kind word, close your eyes and enjoy a moment....~♥~ shared by Lhynn ~♥~

You can be an encouragement.

 You can be an encouragement. Everyone needs encouragement, but it's so easy to forget to take the time to give it. Think of someone in your life whom you appreciate today, or someone who made you smile, - and tell them! Even if it's a stranger, take a moment to let them know you noticed. It will make not only their day, but also yours!...shared by Lhynn

☼ Life is Beautiful! ☼

☼ Life is Beautiful! ☼
Always think that It's going to be a great day! stay POSITIVE No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see possibilities - always see them, for they're always there. You have the power to free yourself from the mental prison that fear creates. Anything worth having is worth working for, and you deserve to live fearless and free. Always have faith and be kind to one another.
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A GIFT OF SERENITY,,,

Give the loving gift of serenity. Love is not expressed best with cards, flowers and candy. Love is shown from the envelope of the soul, expressing kindness, compassion, honesty and loyalty. Love is shown from the fragrant bouquet of patience, tolerance and understanding. Love is shown with the sweetness of one's words of inspiration, encouragement and support. True love's most serene gifts remain visible and forever fresh, and will never fade, wither or melt. Invisible love gifts express the most visible love, and they can always best be seen in the serenity they give another. shared by Lhynn

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You are not a boomerang...

You are not a boomerang. You do not have to go back to any person who threw you away. You have a choice. You can go back to someone who tossed you and the relationship away. Or you can keep moving, and you can go forward instead of backward. You don't owe anyone a second chance, and no one automatically deserves another chance to treat you badly. You can and should forgive them, no matter what they did, no matter how they treated you. But forgiveness doesn't mean that you're obligated to invite them back into your life for more of the same. And it doesn't mean that you're obligated to go back to them, even if they have "changed." Forgiveness can be given privately within yourself, and you can forgive someone completely without ever having to see or speak to them again. You don't even owe anyone the words "I forgive you." If you decide to go back to someone who mistreated you, or allow someone back into your life and heart again, you do this knowing full well that you're giving them the opportunity to hurt you again (and again and again). You have to decide whether they deserve that opportunity and whether you deserve any negative consequences from giving anyone who's already chosen to treat you badly and wrongly that opportunity again. Ultimately, you are responsible for the results, consequences and repercussions of your decision. Make sure your decision is one you want to -- and can -- live with, because you will have to live with it.

 

 

When you quit worrying about falling, you learn how to fly!

When you quit worrying about falling, you learn how to fly!There was a time I was constantly plagued with worry, doubt, and fear. Sure, I still have those same feelings from time to time, but not constantly. With a little bit of work and a determined mind you can over come anything!
Don't let negative emotions run your life. There isn't much better than a grateful mind!

DETERMINE TO PERSIST!

Follow your dreams... When trying to change something in your life, there is a fine line between being patient with yourself, and being too lenient. Change is difficult, so you will have setbacks. The trick is to know this up front, have pa...tience with yourself and your situation, but then DETERMINE TO PERSIST! This means pushing yourself to do what's necessary even when you don't feel like it. Even if you take two steps forward and one back, you are still one step ahead. Remember.. Nothing worthwhile is ever easy! But it is so worth the effort!...

 

Like ripples on the water,..

~Like ripples on the water, the things you do that seem small, can have a big impact. Sitting around waiting on life to get better will produce no results, If you want something or want things to be different change starts with you. Never let fear stand in your way. Live life and love it! Nothing worth having comes easy. Live "on Purpose" by deciding what you want and what your life will be about. Stop complaining. Stop waiting. Stop whining. Stop wanting others to be different. You get to choose how you will live your life. Never make it about someone else, or the situation or circumstances. Be the way you want your life to unfold, and the Law will manifest exactly just for you!... ~♥~  Lhynn ~♥~

 

 

 

 

 

 

The secret of a successful relationship lies in an extraordinary passion

The secret of a successful relationship lies in an extraordinary passion to keep the spark alive in your relationship. The key lies in embracing each other with all imperfections and sticking together even through the worst circumstances in... life. All couples go through fights, misunderstanding, arguments and irritable phases. But the most compatible couples have an amazing ability to forgive, forget and bounce back in the relationship. The secret to a strong bond between couples is their ability to endure each other’s imperfections and cherish differences. It is all about two people who are madly in love with each other and who are strongly determined have a rocking relationship and handle their life with maturity and understanding.

 

 

The difficulties can get you down, but only if you let them.

The difficulties can get you down, but only if you let them. The setbacks can make you discouraged, but only if you allow them to do so. You can choose to focus on the good places you intend to go, instead of on the painful places you've had to go. Sure, life is tough and the journey is difficult. Yet at the same time life can be beautiful and rewarding. It doesn't really accomplish anything to complain or dwell on, life's unfairness. To make a positive difference is to put your energy and enthusiasm into following a meaningful purpose. Step confidently forward, leave that negative incident behind, and move ahead....Always..

Moving on is not about not looking back.

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Ϛ♥ )  Moving on is not about not looking back.
 / \☁ It’s taking a glance at yesterday, and seeing how much you’ve grown since then.♥
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