YOU ARE STRONG .... JUST BELIEVE AND STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF!!

YOU ARE STRONG !
 You have rights and make choices ... You have a voice.  You can move . You can make changes. You can agree or disagree, You can say no or you can say yes. You can refuse. You can participate. You can stop or start. You can begin or you can end. You can walk or you can sit down. You can run with the wind, go with the flow, get in the swing of things, or you can stand still until you know what you want to choose to do or choose to not do. You have plenty of power and you can use it when you choose it. You are alive. Your heart is beating, and you are breathing. You have intelligent thoughts. You have firm beliefs. You have strong opinions, good values and solid principals. If your thoughts, beliefs, opinions, values and principals are not working well for you in your life, in your own favor and best interests, you can change them and choose better, more empowering ones.
 Instead of denying your power, why don't you try your power? Who are you to say that you can't? If you're powerful enough to predict the future and say that you can't, you are powerful enough to predict the future and say that you can. Your better future starts today when you acknowledge all your power and start using it, today. Empower yourself by acting as powerful as you really are.
 A tower of power isn't made in one day. Your strong, solid tower is built by you, and you build it up one stone or even one pebble at a time, day by day. Don't allow any person or any circumstance to prevent you from building yourself to be a stronger person, regardless of what anyone does, what has happened to you in the past, or what may happen to you in the future.
A strong person can be broken down the same way that person was built up: one word, one action, one person, one circumstance, one choice or decision, day by day. So what power you've built and what you're building, let no one or nothing take away from you. You have talents, skills and gifts. You are free to use all of your assets, and you are capable of making what may have once been liabilities into powerful assets. You can make a conscious decision to make the best of the worst, and you can at least make better of the worse in your life. You can transform the most dismal past into a most brilliant future. And all you have to do to do this is to claim your power, use it, and do it one day at a time. You are NOT powerless...
JUST BELIEVE AND STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF!!

Just remember that no matter how many times we fall, we should get up even more.

It is a common nature for man to stumble, to fall and to feel weak at times. When this happens, we should not be afraid. We just have to stand up, pick ourselves up from the mess and just move on.

We should remind ourselves  that we are not made perfect and that if we can stumble and fall, then we are also made to stand up, to bounce back and be strong so that we can redirect the course of our destiny.

Falling down is not something to be scared of. We should think that we have enough strength  and loaded with enough wits, intellect and skills to recover fast and recover well. God made us as such. We just have to know what we have, what we are able, what we know, so we can use them to reshape ourselves when we stand up, move on and fight back, or go along silently.

For those who have difficulties or having shortage of personal inspiration, they should just ask counsel from others, or simply, pick up a book, read magazines and find inspirational quotes that could help them remove their worries and just spring up and move on. But the best solution there,.. is to look inside their hearts and gather their own strength and knowledge to help themselves.

Everyone of us should be reminded that it is not an option to remain fallen. It is also not good to always fall down at the slightest hump. We should also know how to avoid falling down. We should keep it in mind that we should learn from the last fall so that when the warning signs come again, we will be ready and know how to skip and hop over the festering humps, and just continue our journey.

Just remember that no matter how many times we fall, we should get up even more. That is a must. That is the call for us to always get over it, go beyond the failures, trials and weaknesses and carry on.

 

 

Remember to put the glass down...

A psychologist walked around a room while teaching stress management to an audience. As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they'd be asked the "half empty or half full" question. Instead, with a smile on her face, she inquired: "How heavy is this glass of water?"

Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz.

She replied, "The absolute weight doesn't matter. It depends on how long I hold it. If I hold it for a minute, it's not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I'll have an ache in my arm. If I hold it for a day, my arm will feel numb and paralyzed. In each case, the weight of the glass doesn't change, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes." She continued, "The stresses and worries in life are like that glass of water. Think about them for a while and nothing happens. Think about them a bit longer and they begin to hurt. And if you think about them all day long, you will feel paralyzed – incapable of doing anything."

Remember to put the glass down...

 

 

Life is Messy BUT ....

''To make a masterpiece, you have to risk

making a mess.''

Today while experimenting with my Acrylic Painting  actually my first project ) these thought comes to my mind.
 My point is: ... Life is messy. Achieving an important goal, accomplishing something that's worthwhile and valuable to you, or creating a "great" situation in your life is often not at all a neat and tidy process. It may not be a smooth process. It probably won't be a simple one. It might not be easy. It's likely that it won't happen overnight. It may be quite complicated, actually. It could be that in the process of making that "masterpiece" in your life, you make a few "messes" along the way. As a matter of fact, some messes can happen that are not even of your own making. The messes are made just as a result of the process of making that masterpiece, getting it made, and having it become a "finished product." The messes that occur along the way in the making of your masterpiece really don't matter much. All you need to do -- or all that you CAN do -- is just clean them up as you go. The messes are simply evidence of the work you're doing, and they don't detract from the value of the finished product. When all is said and done, what's going to matter, what's really important? The process of making your masterpiece doesn't need to be perfect, neat and tidy. In fact, the fact that it was a messy process and you made your way through it will make the product that much more valuable to you. Remember that the result what is most important,  and it's what people will remember, not the little messes that were made along the way to the result.

 

With these said and crossing my fingers here ~hoping  that my Creation  will come out my Masterpiece! 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

WHAT I AM THANKFUL FOR? ?...

~~ WHAT I AM THANKFUL FOR ? ~~

What Blessings come to mind ?
 
For more than a year ... so many life  changing events had happened to me .. I am suffering with knee problems , being ON THE GO kind of person ~ It made a big impact on me ..  there are times I felt so helpless. But with Positive attitude and support from All the people that were there in times of needs, I am still here ... Enjoying LIFE... 

There are many countless things I am Thankful for ...
My Loving Family who warms my heart with Great , LOVE , PRIDE and JOY . They are not perfect but make my Life Worthwhile . My close and dearest friends , I pause and looked back at parties,, all the tears and laughter we shared , each and everyday life becomes easier and  more enjoyable because of their companionship .  I thanked them all for letting me grow in my own time , for respecting my feelings ... I only have few chosen friends , but they are always there when you needed them most ...

 I am Thankful each time I see the sunrise and every full moon , the beauties of the day ~ The unexpected little Joy , I find along the way . The HOPE and all the DREAMS that keeps me going each day ... I can keep on and on ..  But most of all I Thank GOD for this Beautiful life he had given me all this time .. With these I can say LIFE is really GREAT!  anything and everything is Possible if you Keep Believing and never lose your Faith .

HAPPY THANKSGIVING EVERYONE ! ~Shared by Lhynn~

#BeGrateful... being thankful we remember our many blessings:...

Usually...when we talk about being thankful we remember our many blessings: our family, friends, jobs and all the other things that make up our world. Although this is normal , real gratitude stems from the total understanding of the gift of life, of simply being alive in spite of and regardless of circumstances. If we are going to be grateful only when things are going our way, what happens when life takes away from us .. those things that we are accustomed to having and those people we love so dearly?
Do we stop being grateful? This is not true gratitude, it is selective gratitude. Let us be thankful for every breath we are given and for every ounce of the precious life force that flows through us constantly; I know sometimes its difficult to accept some of the circumstances that  might be going on in our lives... but, let us be grateful no matter what comes our way.

''Be yourself. Be happy with what and who you are...

''Be yourself. Be happy with what and who you are. Be contented with what you have. And do not let what others think of you bother you, especially if what they say are not pleasant. '' This is a very good inspirational quote for those who are confused at times.

Whatever you are should not be defined by what others think of you. You should have that confidence to define what you want for yourself. The only thing that you allow from other people are the positive and inspiring words that could build you up. Other than that, everything else should be rubbish and therefore not worth your time and energy

Yes!, it is alright to listen to what others would say. But at most, they could only  recommend and not be definitive. At the end of the day, it would be nice to repeat, that whatever makes you happy and  what you think  ~ that is best for you should be what you ought to be.

The bottom line is we should be happy no matter what.
We should only listen and adhere to what is inspiring and what is positive. Leave all the negative thoughts behind - do not bring them with you.

 

Don't look back to the past with regret because you're not there now.

Mistakes that you make are the concrete evidence of the  progress that you're making. It's not that you've done something that's "wrong," it's that you've done something that's been "done."

Don't look back to the past with regret because you're not there now. Don't look forward to the future with regret because you're not there yet. Don't overlook today because you're here now.
And today, never look away with regret for all you have. Because all you have is NOW.

 
    
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People with good self-esteem will feel good about themselves...

People with good self-esteem will feel good about themselves whether they're single or when they're a in a relationship. People with poor self-esteem won't feel good about themselves when they're single or when they're in a relationship, You're not any less of a person if you're single.

 You're not any more of a person if you're in a relationship. Being single or being in a relationship doesn't make you a better person, and neither makes you better or worse, more or less, superior or inferior to anyone else. .

No romantic partner will ever make you any more than what you are alone. If it takes a relationship to make you feel better about yourself or improve you as an individual, you were never good enough even for yourself. Until you are good enough for yourself, by yourself, you will never be as good of a romantic partner as you can be. And if you don't feel good and have a good relationship with yourself  when you're single, you won't have a really good relationship together with anyone else.

 

 

"It's said that desperate times call for desperate measures"

"It's said that desperate times call for desperate measures"

 

Well... I don't believe in that. I'm a great believer that anything done or said in a state of desperation is not a good thing. Dark times call for faithful measures. When we find ourselves facing challenges, we need to place our faith in a Higher Hand to guide us through darkness into the light. It's not easy by any means, but one small step leads to another. It starts with us, in adopting a positive attitude, in opening our hearts, and in knowing that whatever happens is for our highest good. It's better to work diligently to maintain a calm state of mind, so any decision is a thoughtfully made one. And a little faith can go a very long way, even in the most dire and dark circumstances. Have some faith: hope, optimism, confidence that your dark circumstances will lighten and brighten somehow, some way. This always feels better than feeling completely hopeless. Better decisions are made when you're calm, not in desperation.

 

 

 

 

Intention is awesome but action is everything.

You've probably spoken to someone today, but have you spoken to your own heart? Have you given it a welcome to the day and offered some encouraging words? Your heart deserves every respect to hear lifting and encouraging words. Speak power to your heart in what you SAY and MEAN. You cannot live a positive life in SAYING unless you MEAN what you say. All the great quotes and power thoughts will have less or little power unless they have meaning and are received with acceptance in belief to your heart. This thought, to me, is what separates the doers and don't in life--Doers SAY it, THINK it, and MEAN it. Saying, thinking, and meaning will be tested. You will flop, sometimes, but that does not mean you are done or you are wrong about what you believe, though you may see you don't believe it like you want to believe it. It just means you are human and you are offered another chance and choice. Intention is awesome but action is everything.