You are the only someone that you can change.

If you want someone to change, then change yourself. You are the only someone that you can change. When you focus on changing yourself to your own satisfaction -- to be the best person you can be, and to be the kind of person you want to be -- you are unlikely to even want to change others. You won't waste you time wanting others to change, or trying to make them change. You will then accept other... someone as they are. You can decide whether you want someone in your life or out of your life, based on what they are, not what you want them to be. When you're satisfied with yourself, you won't need others to change to suit you. Be so busy working on your own self -- the one someone that you can change -- that you have little or no time to find fault with others.