You Cannot change anyone to love or stay with you you

 I read somewhere once that many women go into a marriage thinking of the ways they can change the man and men go into marriage thinking that the woman will never change, Either way of thinking doesn't usually lead to a happy marriage. The reality is that if people change, it is because they made a conscious decision to change because the way they were doing things simply no longer worked for them, or they changed in response to things that happened to them in their lives. So I guess if you really don't like somebody the way they are, you have 3 choices:
1. walk away
2. change yourself
 3. give them good reason and motivation to want to change, because it definitely isn't going to happen just because you don't like them the way they are, or because them changing would benefit you in some way.